Operation 50th Wedding Anniversary Dress, Revisited

I have neglected following up on my shopping exploits. It has been a few weeks since I purchased what I THINK is the dress. I even found a pair of shoes, which usually seals the deal for me. Here are some pictures:

Kate Spade Solar Trisha Dress

I'm delighted to say I did not pay $300 for it. I am sad to say I still paid about 1/2 that. I'm also still unsure about it. I'm debating if I need to add some fabric to the neckline. It's OK, but I wish it was a little more covering. I might find some white lace and have a tailor do some alterations just so I don't have to worry. Or I might find something else that doesn't make me slightly uneasy and take this back. Here's a better close-up of the print:

The print strikes me as bright & summery, so I like that. It certainly wasn't that common among all the dresses I was finding. All other dresses I was seeing were either black, mostly black, or neon.  And I think the aquamarine is close enough to a pastel to accommodate my family's request. I told them we were doing aquamarine for our color. And here are the shoes:

 I'm happy to say, regardless of the fate of the dress, these shoes aren't going anywhere. I love them. I'm trying not to wear them too much right now so they still look new for the party. It's difficult.

Thoughts? Ciriticisms?

Cannes Film Festival 2013: All Covered Up

I was just looking through the red carpet photos for the Cannes Film Festival. Normally, I scour any event for a charming formal look (I'm obsessed with all that is dressed up) that I would wear or at least dream that I COULD wear. And while scouring Cannes' photos, I was struck by how many women were walking the red carpet all covered up. Is this a trend? I don't know. But I find it remarkable. Here my Top 10 Favorite looks from ladies who dare not to bare all that much:

Petra Nemcova at the Red Carpet screening for "Behind the Candelabra". And her pretty number isn't even peek-a-boo from behind.

This is Berenice Bejo. I know nothing else about her, but I love her romatinc-bride-meets-business ensemble.

Here you have Alessandra Ambrosio. She and Petra seem to be on the same wave-length, amping up their curvy silhouettes with metallic fabrics. She cuts like a knife in this number. Sadly, I did just have Bryan Adams run through my head after I typed that, but it makes the statement no less true.

And can you ever go wrong with glitter? Well, yes you can. But in this case, Mizz Kristin Scott Thomas, at the Red Carpet Premiere for "Only God Forgives", you are just so right in this dress. And I love the understated tone of your bracelet and that you decided to leave the neckline bare and do dangly earrings instead. Even your hair is perfectly made for this look.

Here you have Fan Bingbing, with a soft and romantic gown on a strong woman with lips that could kill.

It seems Adrien Brody couldn't stay away from Lara Lieto at the Cannes Film premiere of "Behind the Candelabra". I can't say I blame him. I mean, she looks amazing. Nonetheless, I was hard-pressed to find a clear shot without him hanging all over this stunning woman. Until I did! It was worth the hunt. :)

Clearly, I have a thing for blinged-out armor gowns. But I'm not the only one. These ladies are wearing it. I'm just posting.

Aishwarya Rai is stunning in this detailed, beaded lace masterpiece. I tend to get unimpressed with black dresses. There are just so many. But this one has too much drama to overlook.

Li Yuchun went with a blood red, pant suit. She wears her femininity on her chest by bearing billows of ruffles, rather than her boobs. A cape -- now THAT is an unusual accessory. I think she looks amazing.

Mila Jovovich ditched the drama and went for a pretty print instead. Her statuesque frame doesn't hurt this look at all. It's a very modern, artsy look. And her simple hair is a great accessory to the less formal look.

Here's Cheryl Cole at the Cannes premiere of "Jimmy P". Never underestimate the appeal of lace over a flesh-colored fabric. It's always a hot number.

So those, are my Top 10 Favorites. Shockingly enough, there were so many dresses, the couldn't all fit in my list of Top Ten. Some are alright, and some looks aren't my favorite. But I want you to see them, just so you know how incredibly covered up these premieres have been. For your feasting eyes, the other lovely ladies include:

Florence Welch, Cannes 2013

 Melita Toscan Du Plantier, Cannes 2013

 Samantha Barks Cannes 2013

 Eva Longoria, Cannes 2013

 Kirsten Dunst, Cannes 2013

 Jessica Chastain, Cannes 2013

 Rosario Dawson, Cannes 2013

 Elsa Zylberstein, Cannes 2013

 Maji -da Abdi, Cannes 2013

 Mary Cameron Goodyear, Cannes 2013

 Barbara Palvin, Cannes 2013

Nicole Kidman, Cannes 2013

Mouna Ayoub, Cannes 2013

Fashion Thoughts & Frustrations

So, I've been shopping for a dress for my parent's 50th Wedding Anniversary Party this August.

I know, I know. "It's not till August, right? I've got plenty of time." I hear that.

And to that, I say, "Ah, so naive. Have you shopped for a nice dress with sleeves and a knee-length skirt that's not in black anytime this decade?"

The even bigger challenge is we've been instructed to pick a color for each family and the color should be in a pastel hue. I haven't picked our family color yet because I'm hoping to find the dress first (so I have more options when shopping) and let my shopping find determine the color -- which will, in a perfect world, happen before all of my other siblings pick their family colors first (blue and purple are already called for, but I can work with the rest of the rainbow for sure.).

Usually, when I start shopping I already have a pretty accurate and unyielding idea of what I'm looking for. Notions of what I'd like to find out there:

I'm in love with the idea of tulle skirts. Light, feathery, full, kind of whimsical. I could dig that. Or something different that just holds that full shape.

Along with that tulle, I DO enjoy the lace trend. But maybe just a little lace.

A cute print would also not be so bad. And I'm definitely leaning towards a fit and flare style. My short curves appreciate structure and definition.

Also, I like some texture elements. But not too much. These ruffles are nice because they accomplish that without adding actual volume or width (for the most part). I never want to appear wider, so if it's too exaggerated, I tend to avoid texture (especially around my chest and waist where I already think I have sufficient "volume". :))

What I'm finding instead of what I want is:

LOTS O' BLACK. Why do designers always retreat to black? I HAVE black. I need pastel. Color. Any color. Please.

SHEATH DRESSES -- Can I please find a dress that does not remind me of "Real Housewives of Atlanta". Please?

CHEAP LACE -- Come on now. Cheap lace everywhere does not a nice dress make. You have to add nice stuff somewhere. Haven't you learned anything from Cheap n' Chic DIY blogs? 

LONG SLEEVES -- Did I mention this is going to be in summer? Give a modest girl a little bit of a break. 

And MY BIGGEST PET PEEVE OF ALL:

BABY DOLL DRESSES -- I am a GROWN WOMAN. I want a WHOLE DRESS. Please stop telling me that I need to look like an adolescent boy wearing an 8 yr old girl's dress. I do not wish to appeal to pedophiles.  I want a WOMAN'S DRESS. Seriously. These are everywhere. What is up, people!?!?! 

I was thinking not go back to designing dresses, but you're really not giving me much to work with. Unless, of course, I can afford Oscar de la Renta or Valentino. In that case, I might have a few suitable options. Until then.....

I'm hoping my bottom feeder shopping at Nordstrom Rack and Saks Off Fifth proves to be more encouraging than my online searches. Wish me luck.